Playdate

Living in Sunnyside, we have been fortunate to meet so many families with kids in the same age group as Elisa. In fact, many from our playgroup are August babies and we have been able to really grow with them and experience all of the same ups and downs which just makes life so much better. There's nothing like seeing another kid do the same thing yours is doing to know it's all a phase and they will all move on eventually. Lately, as I watch the kids interact more and more with each playdate, I realize how all the personalities and egos are forming and maturing. And I use the word "maturing" here lightly. Though it's gotten easier to chat and enjoy my time with the other moms, it's become more challenging to know when to step in and manage Elisa's struggles and tantrums. Granted, there are times things go smoothly, but more often there is a power play for a cool toy, or a grab at the same snacks, or just a bit of strong-arming that goes into toddler playtime. It's not quite Lord of the Flies, but you wouldn't want to leave them alone for too long. You just never know.

During our playdate with Juliet and Kristin yesterday, there was a bit of pushing and some sobbing over toys (all Elisa, mind you). But there was also giggling and jumping and lots of hugging and kissing when we left. The girls really know when to turn on the charm and the multiple kisses--on the mouth!--were too adorable. It just makes you wish they could chat and talk about life like they clearly want to, instead of shriek and cry when they don't get their way. Oh, girls.